I’ve been wanting to do one of these posts since Jack was born…when every week seemed different…as a way to chronicle it all and compare in the future. Obviously that didn’t happen…but that doesn’t mean I can’t jump on the wagon now! I always love reading these from other bloggers to get an idea of how similar/dissimilar our lives are…kids vs no kids…SAHM vs WOHM…I tend to find mundane details interesting…like when people wake up and what they watch on TV. So here’s hoping you all feel the same…otherwise this will be extremely boring.
So it’s no secret that I work full time in addition to being a Mom full time…which is a mix of good and bad. Working is a choice I make and after going to school for 6 1/2 years (and STILL paying for it) well I don’t take my degree lightly…I put it to work (literally) and like the daily challenge that it brings. So here is a “typical” working day (a Wednesday a couple weeks ago) in my life. (Part 2 will be an At Home day with Jack…which looks totally different!)
Now that Jack generally sleeps past the 5am mark (knock on wood) I’ve started to sllooooowwwllly get back into working out in the mornings…because let’s be honest if I don’t do it first thing in the AM then it’s not happening. Lance and I alternate days (just in case jack does happen to wake up before 6) so Mon and Wed are my days. It’s not easy…I find any and every excuse not to get up but recently the reality of “not breastfeeding anymore = weight gain from eating one chip” has set in. So to the basement I go…
Shaun-T FTW!! I loved Insanity pre-pregs…so when we discovered T25 we jumped on it…25mins is perfect for our current life and fits nicely during naps too (if i MUST use such precious minutes this way!). Also Tonya is back…for all you Insanity folk…and she does modified moves which is nice because my post c-section bod does not love doing pushups in every form imaginable.
Jack starts waking up just as I’m getting out of the shower…I quickly throw some clothes on and head to the kitchen to see what food Jack may or may not eat for breakfast and how many meltdowns this will involve. Luckily Dad is on the case already. Lance also has breakfast ready for me (scrambled eggs and toast is typical) so I eat while I prep Jack’s breakfast and get our bags packed for the day. I make our lunches the night before so it’s all ready to go just needs to be put in bags, etc. I find even though I HATE doing this the night before it helps the mornings go MUCH smoother.
Oh and just because I think this is insanely cute…in the above picture Jack is trying to put bibs on his stuffed puppy. You guys…this all started because one morning I was trying to avoid a meltdown and quickly grabbed a nearby bib and put it on his new puppy. He did not forget…because every day since we have to put bibs on puppy. Toddlers are crazy…and smart.
Time for Dad to head out to work! This is Jack running and saying “byyyyyyyyyyye”
Jack will refuse to sit and eat most mornings…so we just let him run around and eat in between while we try and get ready ourselves. Not perfect but it’s life. In the meantime I rush back to dry/straighten my hair and throw on minimal make-up…I’ve got this whole process down to about 10mins…granted most days i look like crap.
And now the real dressing battle begins…Jack’s turn. Obviously he knew something was up and decided to put on a show and quietly look at his book while I dressed him.
Dressed in record time and with zero fighting…seriously…this is NOT my child. I’m not sure who he’s trying to impress.
Arrived at daycare and drop off goes smoothly.
Back in the car and ready for the commute to work…and COFFEE!!
Made it to my office. I work on a college campus…in an old building on the 6th floor…no bells and whistles here! Just constantly praying we don’t have that catastrophic earthquake we’re overdue for anytime soon. Usually when I get in the first thing I do is check email, figure out a game plan for what I need to get done that day…check on progress of processes I started the day before, etc. My day to day is different and depends on whatever project(s) we are focused on…ie. whatever proposal/grad student thesis/conference/publication deadline we have breathing down our necks. Hooray for science research and fighting for government money!
Once a week we have a group meeting. (Our group consists of a couple research staff (me), one post-doc, and about 5 graduate students working on their Masters or Phd) Each week someone presents an interesting and current article relating to our research…and this week it just happened to be my turn! So here I am trying to put the finishing touches on my presentation. It was quite thrilling…that is if ice nuclei creation in long lived supercooled clouds is something that thrills you.
Post talk snack…and planning out next task.
Heading home…the WORST part of my day. The U is shoved up next to the foothills which makes for a traffic nightmare every night. There’s literally like one 2 lane road to get ALL THE PEOPLE out. This is why I LOVE spring break, fall break, Christmas break…and summer…because getting rid of the kids creates a much smoother commute home. I’m an old curmudgeon and college kids are the worst. This day’s commute was made slightly better thanks to a Bill Simmons podcast with Lena Dunham.
HOORAY I’M HOME!! This little guy was happy to see me and posed for the rare selfie with me.
In fact we got 2! Now that we got our hellos out of the way I run faster than a speeding bullet to the bedroom to get my sweatpants on. Please tell me I’m not the only one that does this w/in minutes of walking in the door. Like i CAN NOT BE BOTHERED by anything until my sweatpants are on and my bra is off. Lance is one lucky guy.
Lance will usually have dinner ready to go and Jack fed by the time I get home…so we eat quick and then if I’m lucky Jack and I will sneak in some playtime before he has to head to bed. He got a shiner at daycare this day (see his right eye) but his mood was great! So we got about 10mins of “fun time” before starting the bedtime routine.
Jack and I read a couple books (of his choosing..Go Dogs Go is a current fave…the one above is a random he dug out of the toy bin). Then it’s prayers and into the crib! Most nights he will go down without a fight. We do have the occasional meltdown when he doesn’t want to stop playing…but overall it seems to work great for us.
I start cleaning up the kitchen, do the dishes, and get Jack’s lunch and my lunch ready for the next day. We have to provide all the food for Jack’s daycare and they request we don’t bring anything that needs heated…so he gets a lot of PB&J’s. I also have a bad habit of snacking during this time…but omg are these pb pretzel chips good. DO NOT BUY THEM.
After getting things prepped for the next day I finally get to sit down and relax! Woo! I decide to upload pics for this post using the ipad…granted I won’t actually write this post for 2 more weeks but hey at least I got an early start! Lance and I chat and catch up on TV or whatever we’re feeling that night.
Nothing worth watching on TV so I head to bed a bit early to read a bit. Working on the last of the Divergent trilogy (Allegiant). (Finished it a week or so ago…actually didn’t mind how it ended considering I didn’t like the book as a whole that much…the first and second ones were much better I thought. Excited for the Divergent movie though…I sorta love Shailene Woodley)
Lights out and I’m pretty sure I fall asleep within minutes.
So yes there you go…a typical work day for me. As you can probably tell on days I work I have very little time with Jack…which sucks. But I also only work 4 days a week so I get 3 full days with him and I think that makes up for it. The busiest parts of my day are between 6-7 (both am&pm). Life is usually pretty hectic and nuts and all over the place during those hours. I know that this schedule will only change as Jack gets older and our family grows…so I’m glad I was able to document it at THIS time.
I hope to do another post on a day at home with Jack soon…so stay tuned!!